Personal Blog #6: Paths

How many times a week do you change your mind related to the path you should take in your life? I change my mind at least once a week. Now I`m 24 and I feel quite desperate because I want to decide which path I should take and which one would lead me to success.

But the true is I`m not sure what I would like to do for the rest of my life. The idea of being stuck forever doing something I dislike kills me.  I don`t want to feel miserable and unhappy.

Lately I`ve been talking to some smart people about life direction and they gave me good insights but still I can`t take my first step. Actually, that is not true. I`ve been eliminating a few things I don`t enjoy doing . For example, I can`t get along with numbers, so jobs that involve numbers are out of my list. I also don`t like to do the same thing over and over; I tend to get bored. I started working when I was 12 years old and through those years until now, I left many jobs because what I was learning was limited. I was doing the same thing repeatedly. I wasn`t adding new skills or anything so I just moved on from job to job.

However, at this moment of my life I don`t want to be jumping from one place to another. I want to find something that will lead me to a successful career and will make me happy at the same time.

My next step now will be looking at companies I believe I would like to work for. I might make a list with 10 companies then study about them and later try to set up a meeting with someone in the companies I choose.

I believe this will help me to get to the place I want to be.

Hmm… Where do I want to be again? 😉

Personal Blog #5: Married Life

I can still remember the moment I said, I do, It wasn`t so long ago.
It was a magical day. I`ve never felt so blessed and it was one the happiest day of my life. If you are not married you will understand me when you say your “I do”.

Everything seems perfect at that moment and you think that from this day forward your life will be easy and all the problems will end. But surprise! Pretty soon you will realize that it is not that simple. Living with someone can be difficult even if you are in love. Many adjustments need to be made for you and your partner to live in harmony.

Remember when you used to have you room organized? Well now you need a little more effort to make this happen, because it is no longer just you in the place you share with your partner and maybe his or her standards of a clean room are different.

Or, how about when you are watching TV? Remember that show you love? Guess what? Your husband can`t stand it and to make it worse his favorite show is at the same time as yours. What to do? Compromise. Otherwise, you will need to buy a second TV.

It sounds crazy but when you are living with your partner those little things can be annoying. The details, the ones you never even thought about, can drive you and you beloved one crazy.

However, don`t panic. It is not the end of the world and for every problem there is a solution. When two people love each other, they will find a way to work things out.

Relationships are never easy, but they are amazing. Even on bad days with my husband I try to see the good side of it. Sometimes it’s hard but I always find a way. We are not perfect and we don`t like all the same things or agree on everything. But at the end of every day we are there for each other, happy and exited for the future “together” ahead of us.

I Love You!