Personal Blog #5: Married Life

I can still remember the moment I said, I do, It wasn`t so long ago.
It was a magical day. I`ve never felt so blessed and it was one the happiest day of my life. If you are not married you will understand me when you say your “I do”.

Everything seems perfect at that moment and you think that from this day forward your life will be easy and all the problems will end. But surprise! Pretty soon you will realize that it is not that simple. Living with someone can be difficult even if you are in love. Many adjustments need to be made for you and your partner to live in harmony.

Remember when you used to have you room organized? Well now you need a little more effort to make this happen, because it is no longer just you in the place you share with your partner and maybe his or her standards of a clean room are different.

Or, how about when you are watching TV? Remember that show you love? Guess what? Your husband can`t stand it and to make it worse his favorite show is at the same time as yours. What to do? Compromise. Otherwise, you will need to buy a second TV.

It sounds crazy but when you are living with your partner those little things can be annoying. The details, the ones you never even thought about, can drive you and you beloved one crazy.

However, don`t panic. It is not the end of the world and for every problem there is a solution. When two people love each other, they will find a way to work things out.

Relationships are never easy, but they are amazing. Even on bad days with my husband I try to see the good side of it. Sometimes it’s hard but I always find a way. We are not perfect and we don`t like all the same things or agree on everything. But at the end of every day we are there for each other, happy and exited for the future “together” ahead of us.

I Love You!